A sharp change!

Sometimes you try and list down your whole life in pages (in a book you write yourself) and then you just wake up into a new chapter, unannounced, unexpected. Now that’s life! And ain’t I glad the way things are moving! Its fast and the realization that its happening has still not sunk in. But I’m loving it!

My principles, beliefs, everything is breaking down. It is like this huge wall I had created brick by brick over the past decade has finally crumbled and I’m out into a new world, unfamiliar yet exciting. Hopefully my intuitions will lead me to what’s best for me.

That’s all for now. But will keep you people posted on what’s new! ;)

x = y

I am at a stage of life when I think I understand relationships. Or at least at a stage when I can talk about them. At 23 you are supposed to have that much of intellectuality at least. So what I’m talking about here is my theory of relationships... Be it lovers, friends, relatives, colleagues... the x=y theory holds true in most cases.

So what is x=y? x is you. y is the person concerned in the relationship(I’m assuming we have two people in the scene) . So now what is the secret behind a successful relationship? Love, trust, faith, respect and all that. Well you can go and on. But most importantly it’s the expectations you set with each other. When your expectations are not at par with y the equation fails thus becoming a liability or a formality henceforth. Whether its x+3(you are expecting too much), y+3(he/she is expecting too much), x-3(you are not bothered) or y-3(he/she is not bothered), it becomes a flop.

The mantra to a successful equation is setting your priorities right and making your expectations clear. When you have done that and you are ok with what is expected of you and what he/she is ready to give, it works wonders for any relationship. So when you start realizing that someone is not getting their priorities right or is expecting too much of you, don’t run away, it hurts the person concerned and you as well, clear it out, have a chat. Silence never helps a relationship. An honest conversation does. And it makes you a good person inside and outside.

Its raining!!!

Its finally raining!!! The sky was dark since noon... but the sudden pour was still as always unexpected.. The weather forecast had predicted a rain before Sunday.. Yet expected or unexpected rains are the best gift of God. And this time it will wash away a lot of unwanted bad memories and so I waltz to beautiful days ahead. Can't wait to finish my work and rush out!!
http://athi-iownmydestiny.blogspot.com/2009/02/magic-called-rain.html
Time to put the words to action!! :)